In YOUR words

These are actual bits of emails, guestbook posts, and message board threads that people have posted. THIS is why I keep the site going.

"This place is a sanctuary, not a death trap."

"I feel so misjudged all the time and Liz, YOU make me feel supported and loved. I have abusive parents and ana, and supporters like YOU take all the pain away."

"it feels so much more comfotable and open than other sites, and unlike some, it doesnt feel "exclusive" like everyone has a place here. and like i can express eveything here, no need to hide. its great."

"Your website has a very important place on the internet. It is honest. And as a mother (and a friend and family member to several individuals who have have eating, mood and personality disorders) I think the brutal honesty has given me much to think on and lots of useful information. Thank you for not being Politically Correct. Many things you had to say reminded me of me at your age-the anger, frustration, feeling of your life spiraling out of your control...Feelings that many people of all ages have that the public at large doesnt want to deal with or know about." (from a mother of an 8-year-old who worries about her daughter's potential development of anorexia)

"Being a recovering ana myself, I think sites like this need more attention. They help boost self esteem and make me feel loved. Ana's around the world need to unite and revolt against the forced hospitalization, stare-downs and ugly comments. We are people too, and deserve to have our voices heard just like the rest."

"I just wanted to let you know that I'm so sorry that so many people find it necessary to be hateful and judgmental. Your site is beautiful and offers so much-- however controversial it might be. I'm so glad that your site is so open to people and that it exists to offer the kind of support it does. Keep fighting those who are against the freedom of your words and support." (Youth Program Specialist)

"This is an excellent site, and it has helped me, and given me a place where I can be who I am, and not feel so alone, or alienated. This is exactly the reason why we make sites like this, right? Because people criticize us. They hurt us. They make us out to be terrible, horrible people for the things we do that we cannot help."

"It was my choice to search for your site and I was so happy when I was able to find it (because so many search engines block such sites). You provide minimal, yet healthy mechanisms to follow to live as an Ana. You never say "Starve until you die", you explain that if you do starve forever, You WILL die. I respect your site and for my sake and others I hope the site will not be deleted due to ignorant individuals who are narrowminded."

"I just wanted to thank you for giving me a site that right now supports my issues. I have been suffering on and off with both bulimia and anorexia and all i wanted was a site like this. THANK YOU."